A friend of mine is nursing a broken heart. In different phases of my life I have made different opinions about love. And I am sure if I make one today it will change as I grow up lil more. It's gd being in love but hurts when it breaks up, which, ultimately, results in blame game. I think it's simple, the relation which can not withstand time’s onslaught, breaks. But again, it’s difficult to contain the situation. The lips which prayed, start cursing. When relations break, they become bitter. But why? Why don’t we take it as an event of life? One which is not yours will not stay. It is natural. In place of running behind shadows one should think about gd things. There are so many things, which can b salvaged out of a broken relationship. One can remember gd time spent with the Ex. Why shudn’t remember a relation for its gd things. Let’s forget all evils and start life afresh. Forget and forgive. Life is colurful! Dark shades follow bright ones but again, bright are sure to come. And the bottom line is
कुछ तो मजबूरियाँ रही होंगी......यूँ ही कोई बेवफा नहीं होता
i m not flly agreed with the bottom line ....kuchh to majburiya rahi hogi ...... excues are always there when any one wants to step back. realation should have bounding to make it compelete.when two people get seperate with difference of thinking, living and opinion its different and when out of 2 if 1 step back with ireasnable reasons.
ReplyDeleteyeah...you r right...but as beena said ppl can give lame excuses for stepping back...in rare cases der r majbooriya....but yeah..forget nd forgive..but wheneva sumone remembers d tym spent wit der ex..water swells up in d eyes....bcuz dey cant continue due to sum excuses or majbooriya...
ReplyDeleteyeah...naturally d person or thng goes away if he or it wasnt meant for u...but as beena said ppl can give a lot of damn excuses to end up a relationship...but only in rare cases...der r majbooriya...but lets forget nd forgive dsnt apply in every cases...cuz every human aint dat strong...nd wheneva sumone thnks of d good tyms spent wit der Ex...naturally eyes swell up wit water....
ReplyDeleteThere is never majbooriya in love.. it has fate as it very well told saying marriage and job are written where they r meant to be...in the same way love it happens... it has its own ups and down.. if it steps back it makes us wk for some time but stronger for life time... This i have learned when my love had stepped back just telling me after 7 years that i am handicapped... But i m walking strong and in much better way.. I m blessed that's the reason i call meself being blessed...
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ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this post with me. I was not able to stop myself from giving a smile after reading this post.
You had requested me to read this post before commenting on my post on love.
I believe I know who is the friend doing the job of nurse.
I really don't know what people think about love and what they mean by love.
Reg, your bottom line, we most of the time jump into relationship or name anything feeling as love, and when it comes to commitment, we are trapped in the web of situations. We don't for see future neither we think what we are doing in present and ruin our future.